Touching Couples: Better Sex
Touching Couples was a natural progression in the ongoing creation of the DEV experience. Our listeners repeatedly said that the enjoyed the product so much they wished they could share it with their partner. We received comments about listening while their partner watched, listeners who used DEV as foreplay prior to a sexual connection and many that used the products created for the opposite sex as a way to experience doing things to the other partner and not just enjoying their own pleasure.
After a great deal of trial and error and several test runs we developed a way for the process to work simultaneously for both partners.
The first experience, Intimacy, was so popular we created more and the Better Sex line of audios was created.
When couples are struggling with intimacy often times they are feeling vulnerable and the fear of discussing the issues with their partner is too difficult to overcome. Sometimes a little intervention is required. Enter: Touching Couples.
The world is full of self-help guides for every imaginable subject. We read, we take notes, we try to implement schedules and new approaches, but often it doesn’t seem to get us very far. Our society has become absorbed with instant gratification. The internet, mobile phones, the land of plenty, all encourage us to take what we want, when we want it and sometimes the details get lost in the shuffle. In the heat of passion desire can make it difficult to remember what you might have read a week ago or even hours before.
With a no pressure approach the first step is to simply relax. Easier said than done perhaps, but with gentle encouragement and some simple breathing the world will fall away and be replaced with peace. Once you have reached a place of contentment the possibilities are endless.
Intimacy is about reconnecting. Getting back to the basics and taking the time to pay close attention to a person that you care for. To have a patient tender voice to guide you along the way takes the pressure off you and your partner. After all you are doing what you are told.
What is DEV©
DEV© is a combination of simple techniques, easy breathing for relaxation teamed with gentle suggestion to promote visualisation. Together they work to help create a subjective reality where virtually anything is possible. Quality writing enhanced by expert narration generates an experience within that reality of sensuality and high erotic tension. Reactions range from warm relaxation and freedom from stress to more than one third of experiences culminating in a highly satisfying emotional release.
Couples in Touch; Intimacy
A first in the series, this session is about intimacy and sensual connection. You will come to know the power of touch, the intensity of desire, and the simple pleasure of being together. As you listen, you and your partner will be encouraged to intimately explore one another. Your total focus will be on your partner’s sensations and pleasure. You will learn to listen to their body, anticipate their needs, and relish the sensation of giving them extreme sensual pleasure without an end goal in mind. All you are required to do is to relax, listen to us and just let go.
Couples in Touch; an Oral Experience
In this experience, we will focus on the sensations we can experience with our mouth and nose. There are five sensations we can taste with our tongue …. Sweet, bitter, sour, salty and umami. Think about these flavours and the specifics that please you.
Your sense of smell is intimately connected to what you taste and your scent memory is one of the strongest memories there is. Like most of the animal kingdom, we partly identify our mates on a sexual level by our sense of smell. There are elements in a partner’s natural scent that are arousing, these are pheromones and they play a large part in sex.
Take the time to inhale those things that remind you of your partner. Recognize the soap they use, any cologne or lotions. Identify the separate scents and note how it smells differently on your partner than on you or from a bottle or on a garment. Remember it, focus on it. If you are going to be separated from your partner for a time, think about having them wear a tee shirt or similar garment next to their skin after they have showered and used their regular scents. Store it in a Ziploc plastic bag and when you are apart-before this session perhaps, occasionally smell the garment. Remember, focus on it. Feel it against your skin and it will transport your lover to you.
Couples in Touch; Anal Play
This session will enable you to delve deeper into the sensations of each other. Help to give you an idea of how best to please your partner, by watching them please themselves. Masturbation is the best way to learn about your body and increase your capacity for pleasure. There is no need to do anything but please yourself. Having an intimate connected partner watching will increase your pleasure and theirs. Once you reach the heights of your desire you will be instructed to experience anal play and penetration. Whether you are new to this or have experienced it before, you will be guided through an intimate, intense loving connection.
There are some common sense things you need to know for those new to anal play. Please, never insert anything into your partners vagina that has been in hers' or your anus. Bacteria between these places is not compatible and may cause a serious infection. Condoms may be used on fingers and toys, but then must be discarded before using in or near the vagina. It is strongly recommended to thoroughly wash or use wipes on fingers and toys before any further play begins. Always play safe, respect your partner’s boundaries and remember this is a way to deepen your intimate connection.
Couples in Touch; Light BDSM
These sessions are about intimacy and sensual connection. You will come to know the power of touch, the intensity of desire and the simple pleasure of being together. This session is a beginner’s exploration into BDSM. As you listen, you and your partner will be encouraged to intimately explore one another.
This session focuses on the man being in the Dominant role, the female being in the submissive.
D/S relationships are about the delicate balance of power between partners. Although the Dominant is in charge of leading the submissive, the submissive is often in control of the where the fantasy goes.
Remember to agree a safe word ahead of time and honor that word scrupulously. If your partner uses it, then you must stop what you are doing and discuss it with them. This is not an option. Intense arousal and feeling of surrender can bring forward powerful emotions. Play hard, but play safe.
Listen to your partner’s body, anticipate their needs, and relish the experience of giving them extreme sensual pleasure without an end goal in mind. All you are required to do is to relax, listen to us and just let go.
This session includes light bondage, spanking and intense sensory experiences. As always, respect each other, practice safe sex and remember, this is most importantly a way to develop a closer intimacy with your partner.
Mise en plas
For the foodies in the group, mise en plas is a French term used by cooks which means to have everything in place before you begin. Prepare ahead and be ready to begin the process with everything at hand.
First take extra care to prepare the most important ingredient, your body. You will be exploring one another. If you have the time, make your bathing ritual part of the experience. Feel the soap sliding on your skin, focus on the scent of your lotions, and experience the tingle of the brush as it massages your scalp. Allow even the most mundane of ablutions to be a new sensation that builds arousal.
The audios will remind you, but it is important, if you are using any props or toys to have them clean and at the ready. Once you begin, you do not want to have to stop to grab the lube from the closet. Set them out near the space where you will be listening. Once the headphones or earbuds are on your range of motion will be somewhat limited.
Setting the Stage
Think of it as a special night out. Shower, take care with your make-up, lotions, shaving etc. Choose a special outfit, one that makes you feel sensual and comfortable. To work with the audios something that is easily removed is preferable as you may not have it on for long.
Whatever makes you feel relaxed and in the mood. Candles, a little wine, soft background music, satin sheets. Without putting pressure on you or your partner make it a special occasion. The ultimate goal is relaxation and intimacy not necessarily orgasm.
Make a Little Room in your Bed for Us
It may seem odd at first to have someone whispering in your ear as you touch your partner. You may think of this as group sex if it helps get you in the mood! Remember we are with you as a support, to guide and encourage you to reach for a place of greater understanding and intimacy. We are dedicated to our passion for giving pleasure and encouraging positive sexual experiences for everyone.
Remember this is about pleasure. Do not focus too much on the instructions or guidance. Allow the relaxation and guided imagery to carry you away. Begin the process in a relaxed state and allow the induction to work away the rest of any stress or worry.
Intimacy, care, release: are all about letting go. We give and give and give, often forgetting about our own needs. Take this time for yourself and for your relationship. If nothing else a short period of relaxation shared together will do wonders to increase the intimacy between you and your partner.
Keep your mind open, magical things will happen if you do. You are safe and cared for. Let go and experience pleasure you have only imagined.
Test your file, volume, head set and make sure your electronic device is charged. If toys are being used check the batteries. All common sense, but many an orgasm has been thwarted by bad batteries.
Remember some of the sessions involve oils and food items so be advised you may have some laundry. Bear this in mind when choosing an outfit.
A headphone splitter with a separable cord is recommended to facilitate ease of motion without disruption of audio. You may choose to use a speaker instead but the ear buds help to put your deeper in to the experience.
Give the file a brief listen before you begin to get a sense of how it works. It may take a while to get your rhythm. Know thyself! Enjoy!
Monday, 22 January 2018 | Shadow
There are probably many of us that think about the one that got away. We think about what we should have done if we only knew what we know now, what could have been if we had only been brave enough to reach out and take that person in our arms, what we would do if we had another chance. It's a thought that can drive you mad, almost as mad as a sexual desire left unfulfilled for 10 years. So what happens when the one that got away happens to walk right up to you during your high school reunion and says "Hi"? Grace is about to show you.